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When Your Friend Passes Away A Day Before His Wedding

Mortality is a very complicated beast. It's so easy to get lost in day to day life, to get caught up trying to make ends meet. That quest to make our lives mean something is overwhelming. I want to introduce you my brilliant friend and co-worker Tian He because he has written something so important, honest and vulnerable that I had to share it with all of you.

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Grief, Loss and Getting Through Anniversaries

No one knows what to do when someone suddenly dies. It took a long time for my anger to turn into gratitude, but with a lot of work and a lot of time, I was eventually able to believe that I was so lucky to have him as long as I did. I've learned a lot about myself from my brother's passing and it's because I lost him that I am the way I am today. Here are 10 things I learned from my brother’s passing that I wanted to share with you all.

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Live for Today

Today would have been my brother Scott's 22nd birthday. It's been almost 6 years since he's passed and every year I wait for this day to get get easier. In honor of his birthday I need you to do something for me...

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20 Things I've Learned About Grief

When someone passes no one knows what to do. You don't expect to lose someone unexpectedly. You don't think about it realistically and if it happens, everyone runs around panicked and grief stricken with their heads chopped off. I want to share what I've learned through my experience with grief. Here are 20 things I wish I could have known before my brother passed.

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